Painful Intercourse
Pain during penetration is never something to just 'push through' — it's a signal worth listening to, and it's a common, treatable difficulty.
What it can look like
Pain during penetration can be sharp, burning, or a deep ache, and can occur at entry, throughout, or after intercourse. It can be linked to a medical condition, hormonal changes, an infection, or scar tissue (which is why a medical consultation is often part of a full picture), but it also frequently develops or persists because of tension, anxiety, or a protective response the body has learned over time — closely related to vaginismus.
How therapy can help
In therapy, we look at the emotional and relational layers of the pain — anticipatory anxiety, tension, past experiences — using a humanistic and cognitive-behavioral approach, working alongside any medical care you're receiving, to help you feel safer in your body and reduce the anxiety-pain cycle over time.
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